You see, having self confidence is the trigger which pulls off every positive aspect of life. It is the overall aura you exude for people to notice you.

It is the element which lessens other people‘s doubts about what you are actually worth. This is the element you often see in models when they

strut on the catwalk. This is the silencing power you sense in CEO’s. It is the soundless air you feel whenever you meet someone which leaves you

impressed for no apparent reason at all.

"The way sadness works is one of the strange riddles of the world. If you are stricken with a great sadness, you may feel as if you have been set aflame, not only because of the enormous pain, but also because your sadness may spread over your life, like smoke from an enormous fire. You might find it difficult to see anything but your own sadness, the way smoke can cover a landscape so that all anyone can see is black. You may find that happy things are tainted with sadness, the way smoke leaves its ashen colors and scents on everything it touches. And you may find that if someone pours water all over you, you are damp and distracted, but not cured of your sadness, the way a fire department can douse a fire but never recover what has been burnt down.

- Lemony Snicket in "Grim Grotto"