Sorry - this is not an update!
However, if you enjoyed this story and you'd like more Tony-feeling-terrible, angst in general and some stuff written by me, try checking out the new fic on my profile called "A ghost in human skin", which is more plot-based and will be far longer than this fic has been.
I've been overwhelmed at how nice everyone has been about my writing and storylines, so I hope you'll enjoy this one as well.